Hello, everyone!! How are you? Today I choose a topic that hurts me and makes me laugh at the same time. 
“Friendship” is a bond where every passing day makes it stronger, every passing moment makes you feel like heaven. From the beginning of my school days, I was lucky about my friends. But The thing starts hurting when you find your friends making new friends, they start giving more attention and time to others. I still miss my friends, a few of them were very close to my heart but now they even don’t want to share a single problem with me, nor even I do. So the thing is what do we need to keep our friendship alive? What do we need to keep our friendship long-lasting? You know friendship can last as long as we want.
Friendship doesn’t mean we people have to stick all the time but yes if the next person needs us, we must be there but the thing never happened in my case. Whenever I needed my so-called best friends, they weren’t available. Well I know life isn’t easy for anyone but we have to be someone special. We might be dealing with several problems every day but can we just forget our problem for someone who needs us and even a random person can become our close friends.
Let me share a funny incident in my life. Once I read a blog about friendship and in excitement, I texted all my best friends that “Hey who is your best friend”?, I slept after forwarding this message to all my expected best friends, but can you guys believe that not a single friend, said that I am their best friend. Really stuck, I was misunderstood for 1 year and found myself no one’s best friend.
From that day I decided not to call anyone my best friend and I’m never gonna be someone’s best friend. If no best friends no breakup too. It’s simple, don’t make someone your best friend. Go and have lots of close or special friends. Do Respect and celebrate your and everyone’s achievements. Put them before yourself from time to time and rejoice over things that make them happy. Friendship is all about understanding and lots of faith in each other. It might be awkward to read such heavy words about friendship but trust me these two heavy words are the backbone of Friendship.
“How to deal with friendship break up.”
Whether we talk about love and friendship breakup always hurts a lot. You know what I did was to let them go, I texted them once, twice and asked about misunderstanding but as soon as I found extra complaints, guilts and fake blames, I left. It hurts, Yes! a lot but we have to think, accept and move on.
Life is too long for this fake friendship. Today I have a lot of people in my life as close friends and I can call them anytime for any help, to be honest, I am happier than before. The problem is that we tag people as best friends and we start expecting more from them so it’s none of their faults too. I hope you people will not expect a lot from your friends and I hope you will try to understand if they are unable to express themselves.I also believe that we people should not depend on a single person for our all happiness it’s just we should live our life with every new person in our life
Dreamer 